Lillian T. Howard, 85, entered eternal rest on July 10, 2024. She was born in Greene, NC, on October 21, 1938, to the late Elijah and Annie Mae Harper. Tragically, she lost her father in a boating accident during her infancy. Annie Mae later married Jasper Edwards Sr., becoming Annie Mae Edwards, and Lillian became the eldest of eleven siblings.

Lillian celebrated her birthday on October 2nd, as recorded in the family Bible. Known affectionately as “Tee,” she shared a love for fashion with her childhood friend, the late Betty Stewart, often changing outfits to strut through the streets.

After graduating high school, Lillian began her career in the Medical Records Department at St. Raphael’s Hospital, where she met her husband, Willie L. Howard Jr. Together, they raised three children: Gregory L. Howard Sr., Sharon L. Howard, and Brian K. Howard. They divorced in 1974.

A passionate advocate for children, Lillian worked with the New Haven Board of Education in various roles, including Teacher’s Aide, Librarian, and Special Education Teacher. She furthered her education at Southern Connecticut State College and graduated from South Central Community College in 1991 with an Associate in Science Degree and a Certificate in Early Childhood Education.

Lillian was a talented seamstress, creating her own outfits and matching ensembles for herself and her daughter. She cherished attending the Ebony Fashion Fair at the John Lyman Center for the Performing Arts.

A lover of antiques and thrifty living, Lillian learned the value of being economical from her late Aunt Jannie Strong. Before retirement, she worked as an Elderly Companion and a Grandmother for the New Haven Daycare.

Lillian was deeply involved in her community, attending various churches and valuing traditions such as having a palm for Palm Sunday. She maintained a strong spiritual connection, praying before taking her daily medicine.

In her own words before she turned 83 years old, she said: “I don’t want to be alone. I want friends that have a tobacco dependence, but not people that need illegal drugs and alcohol. I don’t want to be with old people that Sit! Those who sit and play beads, puzzles, cards, tabletop games, watch television, etc.” Lillian expressed a desire for companionship, enjoying activities like ping pong, badminton, swimming, gardening, music, art, theater, literature, organic food, concerts, live entertainment and collecting “bric & brac.” Lillian also liked designer clothes, shoes, frugal living, tag sales, trade shows, crafts, radio, needle craft, boutique shopping, investing in stock markets, history, economics, SOUL CONNECTING, Tai Chie, volleyball and attending seminars. She was passionate about politics and stayed actively engaged in community matters.

The year 2022 brought significant challenges for Lillian as she contracted COVID-19 while in Yale New Haven Hospital, which led to an undetected stroke. Despite her struggles, she displayed resilience and strength, supported by her sister Serena until Serena’s sudden passing.

Lillian is survived by her son, Gregory L. Howard Sr. and her daughter, Sharon L. Howard, both of New Haven, CT. She also leaves behind her brothers Larry, Leonard, Charlie and Anthony Edwards and Salim Saafir; Eight grandchildren, Gregory L. Howard Jr., Sean M. Shaw (Mickeya), Michael J. Howard Sr., Toya S. Lisbon (David), Brandon L. Shaw (Shayla), Marquis D. Richardson Sr. (Toni), Jordan J. Howard and Brittany C. Howard; and eighteen great-grandchildren.

Lillian was predeceased by her parents, sisters Gladys, Annie, Susan, and Serena, brothers Horace “Buddy” and Jasper Jr., great-grandson Noah D. Lisbon, and son Brian K. Howard.

Lillian T. Howard will be remembered for her vibrant spirit, dedication to family, and enduring love for life. Her legacy lives on in the hearts of those she touched.

A celebration of Lillian’s life and legacy will be held on Saturday, July 20, 2024, at 2:00 p.m. at Curvin K. Council Funeral Home, located at 128 Dwight St., New Haven. A viewing will precede the service from 1:00-2:00 p.m. The burial will be private.