Benzenia Cox, 76, of New Haven, departed this life on May 30, 2020. She was predeceased by her husband of 49 years, Noah Henderson Cox. Mrs. Cox was born in Darlington, SC on May 26, 1944, a daughter of the late Waitus Lucky and Elizabeth Dupree Lucky.
She moved from Darlington to New Haven in 1959, and graduated from Wilbur Cross High School in 1962. After working at CT Bank and Trust, and spending several years as a homemaker, Benzenia began working for the State of Connecticut. She retired in 2003 as a Social Worker for the Department of Social Services, after 30 years of service.
Benzenia had a quiet, sweet personality that endeared her to everyone who met her. She loved her family deeply, and would discreetly lend a hand to someone in need while never expecting something in return. She was also gifted with a sharp mind, and was unusually perceptive regarding people. For most of her life, she was an avid reader and loved word puzzles, the game of spades and watching movies. Only those closest to her, however, knew how much she loved stuffed animals, and writing poetry. Her love and her wisdom will live on in those whose lives she touched.
She leaves to cherish loving memories: daughters, Kenya Renee Scott, Toni Lynn Scott, Esther Cox-Greene and Jean Cox McGill; sisters, Aurelia Elder (James) and Mary Louise Lucky; 10 grandchildren; 2 great grandchildren; beloved “bonus children,” Na’imah Cox Moore (Kyshant), Antoinette Cox and Noah Keith Cox; and a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends whom loved her dearly. Mrs. Cox was preceded in death by her siblings, Leroy John Lucky and Lizzie Mae Bacote.
Viewing will be held Saturday, June 6, 2020 from 9:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m. at Curvin K. Council Funeral Home, 128 Dwight St., New Haven. A maximum of 5 people will be allowed entrance into the building at one time. Entombment will follow at 10:30 a.m.in the Beaverdale Mausoleum, 90 Pine Rock Ave., New Haven, CT.
Praying for your loss at this sad time. I am the 1st cousin of the late Noah( Boot) Cox. The daughter of James Noah Gilbert, Jr. Your grandmother Esther’s brother. May God give you all comfort.
Esther I’m praying for comfort for you and your family. We love you
Criss and Lakeshia
Thank you for everyone who helped celebrate my mom, Who loved my mom and Enjoyd my mom and appreciated her life and spirit. ?? From the bottom of my family’s ❤️❤️❤️❤️. We thank you for your support. Sincerely her eldest daughter KENYA RENE’
She was a wonderful person who got along with everyone. My deepest sympathy to my cousins and their families.
Esther so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and family. Love you, God Bless! Mona & Greg Moore
To the family of Pastor Greene you are in my prayers and the family send their condolences and their love..
God Bless??
Pastor Ford
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Our prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to our family for the loss of Benzenia. All of your are in our thoughts and prayers. Your Family in Rochester, New York
To my cousins love ya be praying for you all on tomorrow morning it is too soon for me but I love you all . Stay encouraged Cousin Benzenia take your rest always in love our hearts
My prayers and condolences to the Cox – Lucky family. May the Holy Spirit continue to comfort you in your time of bereavement and your Mother, Grandmother, Sister, Cousin, Niece, and friend continue to live on in your hearts and memories. A reflection of her life will forever show through you. God Bless.
Our love and prayers are always with you. May God grant you strength in knowing that he shall wipe all your tears away. Leon and Allean DuPree, Ontario, NY
Renee, Toni, Esther and Jean,
I wanted to share a few words with you regarding your Mom and my Aunt Benzenia. I know that you will miss being able to talk to her, but I also know that you have many special memories of her that can comfort you when you miss her. The last time I saw her in person was at Aunt Mae’s funeral repasse. I was blessed to have a 15 minute talk with your mom and Uncle Bo at the repasse. They were very open with me about how much they cared for each other and how much they trusted each other, through thick and thin. That was a very special moment for me to witness the power of a loving relationship. I have cherished that talk, and will continue to do so, for a long time. Now that both Aunt Benzenia and Uncle Bo are eternally resting, continue to hold on to the special moments that your mom, and Uncle Bo, shared with you. You are not alone. Family is important, as your mom showed, during both the good and difficult times. Take care and God bless each of you. Love, your cousin Leon.